Weight loss

Wow, Darren! Great results. Doing the Hoppy Dance in your honor as I type.
Hugs, Sherry
rdbrewer <rdbrewer2@...
I'm down 160 pounds since Feb. I have reached my original goal of
205--the 40% figure given as average. But I had this other goal in
mind too. So I'll lose another 25 pounds and then start adding in
fruit and complex carbs.
Who knows about skin surgery? Looks like I might need a little.
GOOD LUCK TO THE PRE-OPS! BEST DECISION YOU EVER MADE!
Darren
Sherry Head
High 290 1/13/04 Pre-op 260.5 10/16/04 188.8 Total Loss 71.1 Weekly loss 2.8
Diabetes cured
I has met the enemy and he is us! - Pogo

How are you doing, Lisa? When we heard from you a week ago, you had
problems with gas and you had a seroma. How are things going?
Becca

Blood is very carefully tested and the doctor may be correct generally....I
wouldn't know. But I know that for Hospital Santa Cruz and I think Brazil
you have nothing to worry about. W

this question has come up on another list i belong to.........from
what i understand the blood there is screened for the same things as
the blood supply here.
other than POSSIBLY Carole........to my knowledge none of the
American DS patients that Dr M has operated on since i joined this
list well over a year ago....has needed a transfusion.
blessings.
joanne

Hi,
I was having a discussion at work with my coworkers. A resident doc
mentioned that he wouldn't have surgery like this in another country
because if a blood transfusion is needed the blood that they use for
the transfusion is not checked as carefully. He said the US blood
banks test their donated blood much more carefully than countries in
south america.
Does anyone remember hearing about this? Has anyone here needed
blood after surgery for any reason and was the quality of the blood
in question?
I am just curious and would like to know what anyone has heard.
I still don't have any real fears about this surgery. I feel
confident in Dr M's care.
Robin
10/26/04
Leaving in 5 very short days.

I'm down 160 pounds since Feb. I have reached my original goal of
205--the 40% figure given as average. But I had this other goal in
mind too. So I'll lose another 25 pounds and then start adding in
fruit and complex carbs.
Who knows about skin surgery? Looks like I might need a little.
GOOD LUCK TO THE PRE-OPS! BEST DECISION YOU EVER MADE!
Darren

Did anyone go to see the Falls before going to Curitiba? I wonder if
you could recommend a hotel and any other information.
Patrice

Same here re two surgeries. My gastro told me to see a surgeon. I've
decided not to see a surgeon until Dr. M. sees the report and twice I have
been told it was faxed to him and it wasn't. But...once Dr. M sees the
report he will tell me if I have to see a surgeon here or if I can wait
until I know if I am going to Curitiba. If I can wait the heck with having
surgery here. I'll pay for it there and do everything at once, if possible.
It might not be OK but I sure will try. W

Susana! I'm so glad to hear you're doing great and feeling terrific. I'm so
jealous of the size 6. Any new pics?
Camille in FL
selizabeth1990 <urban_inc@...
Dear Friends,
Me here, writing to let you all know it is now 6 months now. I am
now -78. I am wearing a size 6 pants and S-Med in shirts (I have the
broad shoulders deal going on) and actually in the past day or so, I
can actually say I feel light. Walking up the stairs, I feel
stronger and some days I eat like I never had DS (still in small
portions) because I will eat in one sitting, not one bite and wait
etc. So for those pre-ops stay encouraged, your day will come. When
I finally decided to do this, I did not know I would be waiting 2.5
years to see it happen. I did not have the resources, my family did
not know about it and when they did they gave me trouble (but they
finally came around, thank God!), and I am so glad I had the support
of this group that always cheered me up and restored my optimism and
faith, that yes my day will come. So thank you to all you
informators! God bless you! Sending big smiles to all of you!
Susana ~wink~

I am so happy that you are doing so good. I was there in April with my
sister Donna who was having her DS as your group was leaving.
For those of you who have never met Susana, let me say that she is one of the
most beautiful women I have ever seen. I can hardly wait to see her latest
pictures. (hint, hint) She should definately be a pin-up girl for Dr. M.
Susana, have you heard from Ted. I try to keep in touch or at least track
all the ones that I got to know and the ones that I got to go to Madollosa's
with. I have not heard anything about Ted. If he is doing ok let us know.
Deborah Powell
90 pounds lighter
1000000000000 pounds happier

Many people buy one of those flat wallets on a string so they can wear the
money around their neck under their clothes. Others have used money belts
or whatever. On my honeymoon in 1963 my husband was pick pocketed the 3rd
day and all we had after that was the $3 or $4 I had in my wallet and those
were the days before ATMs. We then developed the policy that we would
always split our money so we could never again lose everything no matter
what happened. So I had ½ in my tote bag and half tucked into a zipped
inner pocket in my jacket and truthfully I was so uncomfortable with the
trip and so anxious to get off the plane I never even thought to worry about
the money. My mind was on how uncomfortable I was and counting the hours
until we landed.
Have fun in Tahoe. The 15 years we lived in SF we spent an awful lot of
time in Tahoe. Love the place. W

Dear Friends,
Me here, writing to let you all know it is now 6 months now. I am
now -78. I am wearing a size 6 pants and S-Med in shirts (I have the
broad shoulders deal going on) and actually in the past day or so, I
can actually say I feel light. Walking up the stairs, I feel
stronger and some days I eat like I never had DS (still in small
portions) because I will eat in one sitting, not one bite and wait
etc. So for those pre-ops stay encouraged, your day will come. When
I finally decided to do this, I did not know I would be waiting 2.5
years to see it happen. I did not have the resources, my family did
not know about it and when they did they gave me trouble (but they
finally came around, thank God!), and I am so glad I had the support
of this group that always cheered me up and restored my optimism and
faith, that yes my day will come. So thank you to all you
informators! God bless you! Sending big smiles to all of you!
Susana ~wink~

Have I lost my mind? Hubby and I are headed out to Lake Tahoe for his company's
big annual trip- we'll be in Tahoe for four days and then back to Omaha to do
laundry and pack to leave fro Brazil on the 24th. I am only nervous about
carrying the money with me. It freaks me out. I am not known for my ability to
keep track of things- especially when I am nervous about losing them in the
first place. Anyone have any great "secrets" for carrying that much cash? Silly
to be most worried about that- but it's where I am at! Well, wish me luck- we
leave Sunday fro Tahoe- one week before I leave for Brazil! : )
-Kelly

Oh, Diane! I am so sorry to hear you're still having problems- sending good
thoughts your way.
-Kelly

well, sighs... i guess we have to take this all the way to
the end.
we didn't hear from senator murray's office today, but
arwen DID get a letter from the passport office.
now they want us to take a dna test to establish my
maternity! they're just determined that we prove she's
really my daughter. they sent all the paperwork, and
arwen will take the day off monday so we can get the
test done.
has anyone ever had a dna test? any idea how long it
takes and what it costs?
this is beyond ridiculous. i'm hoping that we'll hear from
sen. murray's office that it's been straightened out and
they'll just go ahead and issue the passport. but if it's
our life's blood they want--well, so be it.
big, tired sigh.
diane

Not only does Dr. M recommend Dr. C. but all his family members have gone to
him. W

Hello everyone,
I am trying to encourage a friend to have her DS in Brazil when her
mom is there for Plastics.
Sooo...what plastic surgeon does doctor Marchesini refer his
patients to? It needs to be a Plastic SUrgeon familiar with WLS
patients and all our excess skin.
Can you help? Thanks!
ELsa
( I had a DS in SPain last year and am very happy....I am probably
going to doctor Fabio in Brazil for my plastics)

OK, Thanks

For you, Wendy, I'll be glad to vote twice! <g
Wendy Held <w.wendyh@...
you know how to put a positive spin
on it. <g
one vote. W
Sherry Head
High 290 1/13/04 Pre-op 260.5 10/9/04 191.6 Total Loss 68.9 Weekly gain +2.4
Diabetes cured
I has met the enemy and he is us! - Pogo

Hi,
I read the info and printed the instructions from the FAQ. I will be
transfering my Hospital money on monday morning from my bank.
I just wanted to be sure the info on the FAQ was up to date? Are
there any other tips anyone has on making this transfer? I have
never done a wire transfer before! Any special advice or
instructions would be welcome.
I leave for Curitiba in 1 week. Friday at 6pm is my big send off. I
am surprised I have any finger nails left! I am not getting a lot of
sleep either.
I scheduled myself to go to work for the next 4-5 nights (12 hour
night shifts!) on purpose just to help me stay busy and think of
something else besides surgery.
Now....If I could just keep my coworkers from asking about it and
reminding me! My surgery is the talk of the unit right now when I am
there. I am hoping there is a LOT of babies to be born this next few
days so I can keep my mind off of flying to Brazil. I think the
flight right now is my worst fear at the moment(I HATE to fly!). The
other will take first place in the fear department when I arrive in
Brazil.
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO excited! 11 days til I
get SWITCHED!!!!
Robin G
10/26/04 DID I say I was excited????????????

Do I make the reservation or does Dr. M? I thought I read were he
makes it.

Sherry..I love you. No matter what I do you know how to put a positive spin
on it. <g
one vote. W

It's the Parthenon Sete de Setembro.
Janice
10/20/04

George,
Maybe you talked about FL on one of your posts and I just assumed.
Silly me, LOL. OK I will send an SASE for those cards. Thanks.
Deidre

What is the name of the hotel were everyone stays?

Remember the game played in the late 1800's in which the winner was the person
who could concoct the longest, grammatically correct, run-on sentence? We
seldom even write letters these days, and I am in absolute awe of those
sensational sentences. Hugs, Sherry
Wendy Held <w.wendyh@...
all my friends went to a 3 year
hospital nursing program and getting capped was a big deal and each hospital
had its own cap and I was proud of the fact I could tell which hospital my
friends went to nursing school at.......and that may be the worst run on
sentence I have ever written but once I got going I couldn't find a way to
end the sentence. <g
Sherry Head
High 290 1/13/04 Pre-op 260.5 10/9/04 191.6 Total Loss 68.9 Weekly gain +2.4
Diabetes cured
I has met the enemy and he is us! - Pogo

Hi Mike,
Congratulations! Those numbers are fantastic. I can't wait to see your new
pictures.
Clear Skies,
Dave in Ohio
Biliopancreatic Diversion with Duodenal Switch by Dr. Marchesini in
Curitiba, Brazil
July 6, 2004
Highest Weight: 450lbs (BMI 72.6)
Surgery Weight: 377lbs (BMI 60.8)
Weight on October 6: 290lbs (BMI 46.8)
Total loss on October 6: -87lbs

that is really awesome Mike..........
only three months out and already 100 lbs lighter.
way to go.
joanne

First, let me say that I am truly grateful for all the information
and support I have received from this group. I am also grateful for

Wow....I am old enough to remember when all my friends went to a 3 year
hospital nursing program and getting capped was a big deal and each hospital
had its own cap and I was proud of the fact I could tell which hospital my
friends went to nursing school at.......and that may be the worst run on
sentence I have ever written but once I got going I couldn't find a way to
end the sentence. <g

Hi Konstantin,
There are instructions in the files section on how to post pictures. If you
try them and still can't get it to work, email me the pictures and I can
post them for you.
Clear Skies,
Dave in Ohio
Biliopancreatic Diversion with Duodenal Switch by Dr. Marchesini in
Curitiba, Brazil
July 6, 2004
Highest Weight: 450lbs (BMI 72.6)
Surgery Weight: 377lbs (BMI 60.8)
Weight on October 6: 290lbs (BMI 46.8)
Total loss on October 6: -87lbs

I think we all should remember we have people in Congress from time to time.
George reminded me that if I have a problem in the future that is a resource
I forget. Hope you get some quick action. Patty Murray is an OK gal from
the little I know of her. W

I tried then tried again and now I am asking.... What have I done wrong?
How do I post pics on the site?
Konstantin

hi, friends,
i took george's advice and called my senator this
morning--patty murray. it happens that my dh has sat on
a committee with her and knows her personally, and we
stopped in and said hello when we were in dc a few
years back.
i left a message, and within 15 minutes her aide called
me back. she took the entire story and is now on it like
white on rice!
so, we'll see how this plays out.
thanks again, george. maybe this will get results.
diane

Hi everyone: I saw the new post on the CNN report on various types of
bariatric surgeries. I posted the complete paper it was based on in
the files section under "JAMA article" as it was published earlier
this week in JAMA-Journal of the American Medical Association.
Basically, it confirms what we already know (even if most US docs and
insurance companies don't know): that the DS gives the highest
percentage of excess weight loss of any of the surgical procedures,
while having a worldwide mortality rate of about 1.1%. It is also
credited with having the highest success rate for diabetic patients.
The article summarizes studies done in the US as well as around the
world, and concludes very positively for our surgery. So when those
no-nothing PCP's, surgeons and insurance companies press for lap band
and RNY, while you are still holding out for the DS -- take this
article and tell them to ....... (you can finish the comment I'm
sure!!!!) Seriously, this article should help those folks still
fighting for insurance coverage while being told the DS
is "investigational".
Diane (Chicago)
6wks post op
-33lbs

yes, Robin.....he is.
in fact.........he will come to your house to see you. lol
while in Brazil you will reside at the hotel and he will make "house
calls" to check up on you.
he is a delight.
hugs.
joanne

Hi,
I emailed Dr M about getting copies of my medical/surgical reports
with detailed descriptions of my surgery etc...
He just emailed me back and confirmed all my surgery details, AND
said he will prepare full surgical reports IN ENGLISH! for my PCP and
will also include information to the PCP about after care needed and
how to contact him if she needs to.
DR M is the BEST doctor I have ever been assiciated. He is kind,
polite and very interested in ME as a patient. So far I am VERY
impressed with him. I deal with doctors all day long at work and
have never seen one with a bedside manor like his. I bet he is like
the old fashioned doctors who would come to your house to see a
patient. Like those old doctors that several generations of families
see.
I am so excited to meet him in person. I know I will be in the best
of hands with him.
Robin G
10/26/04 Getting sooooo jittery now!

In Brazil, the doctors, nurses, physical therapists, etc. are very
patient with you. They are warm and considerate and they never seem to
be in a rush. It reminds me of what medical care was like in the United
States a long time ago. Would you believe the nurses in Brazil wear
white uniforms, including white stockings and shoes.
Becca

Yes, we just mailed a copy of the reciept and the travel itenerary
with the visa application. We did this last month to get visas for
my surgery this month. We got our tickets online!
Robin G
10/26/04

I've seen the Broadway show twice with Nathan Lane and Matthew Broderick. The
story was much better than the original movie. More fleshed out, more human and
much, much funnier.
Carole
Wendy Held <w.wendyh@...
Wait until you see the musical version of his movie The Producers.
Hysterical. A chorus line of old ladies with their walkers and Spring Time
for Hitler as a big production number. They will start filming it next year
with the same NY cast......Nathan Lane and Mathew Broderick. W

yes- they just need a copy of your itinerary! ; )
-Kelly (just got my Visa today!- only 10 days till I leave!)

How can I book form GRU to CWB, I don't see a site that speak
english??

Can you get a VISA with an E-ticket? Has anyone done that??

Thanks

Wait until you see the musical version of his movie The Producers.
Hysterical. A chorus line of old ladies with their walkers and Spring Time
for Hitler as a big production number. They will start filming it next year
with the same NY cast......Nathan Lane and Mathew Broderick. W

George,
I remember hearing you moved out of PA. The reason I ask is because
I was going to request the DS medical cards from you and send you a
SASE but wanted to check that your address in the files is correct.
Please let us know.
Thanks Deidre

Thank you both. I knew there was a movie I wanted to rent that was
supposedly good but I couldn't think of the name. On to Netflix. Thanks
much. W

Hey, guys, hope it is okay... I downloaded the current news report
about the benefits of weight loss surgery from CNN's site and added
it in the files section (in a PDF document) for posterity! (And it
should be helpful in case someone sometime is educating a PCP.) I
was so glad to see it mentioned the DS!!
By the way, if you don't have the most current Adobe Reader, you can
download it at http://www.adobe.com/products/acrobat/readstep2.html
:)
Nina

Oh Brother Where Art Thou is my favorite!
Nina
saipanmom <jkrdrmom@...
Anyone know of some really good funny movies I can bring?
I am going to bring my favorite from last year Pirates of the
Carribian (LOVED that movie, I could watch it over and over agian for
some reason).
Hmmmm....I am going to have to look around and bring something I
haven't seen or something I havent' seen in a long time.
RobinG
10/26/04

Hi Myrtice,
I ordered my binders from the Medical Supply Group
http://www.medicalsupplygroup.com/ . The Dale Bariatric Binder comes in 3
sizes (60", 72"-84", 82"-94"). http://tinyurl.com/3hpnc
Clear Skies,
Dave in Ohio
Biliopancreatic Diversion with Duodenal Switch by Dr. Marchesini in
Curitiba, Brazil
July 6, 2004
Highest Weight: 450lbs (BMI 72.6)
Surgery Weight: 377lbs (BMI 60.8)
Weight on October 6: 290lbs (BMI 46.8)
Total loss on October 6: -87lbs

I lost the posting about where i can get a binder in the XXXL size?
Does any have that info, I thought Dale Bindrs, but I only see small
sizes now.

You are doing so well! I'm glad your wife is playing "water
police"; it's so important to be hydrated.
When are you going to put up some "skinny man pictures"?
I'm glad you are doing so well and the surgery, so far, is such a
success for you.
Take care,
Tia
6-22-04
297/232/175
PS
Don't let the scale make you neurotic. Your wife could hide it and
bring it out every 3 days. ;) lol

Konstantin,
That is so wonderful! I am SO happy for you!
Nina
5/5/04
275/190/135
kstew111@... wrote:
Well, In my first month I lost the most, and at this point I am at 78
pounds down.
I keep finding it very hard and difficult to stop weighing myself
every day... the most I have been able to stay away from the mechanical monster
is 3 days .... and then I unconsciously start doing it again.
I still feel like I pulled a muscle in my side ... Don't think its a
hernia cause I can't feel anything protruding or what.
I like the feeling of going from size 54 pants to 48 in such a very
short time...
On occaision I eat to much and feel a bit nauseous .. but food wise I
am not cheating I am maintaining 85 to 90% protien and filling in with stuff
like Apple Sauce and when Iam really good I make no fat/ no sugar jello
pudding.
the great difficulty is trying to maintain the vitamin/calcium
intake.. I average about 2000 of Calcium a day but sometimes fall below it and
over
it on the following day.
My wife is my water monitor and makes sure I am hydrated ... but I find
I have to be constantly reminded to drink....
All in all I am glad for the wieght loss... I still feel spells of
weakness and some slight internal pains or discomforts from time to time... but
I must say I already feel more energy than I did on any given day last
year... can only hope the energy levels increase.
I thanks the good Dr. Marchesini for doing such a great job in
turning my life around and setting me on a path toward health and mobility.
Konstantin

if he
I had to have a surgical report to turn in to the gastric pacemaker
company to show what happened to the pacemaker that Dr. M removed
from my stomach. I sent Dr. M an email telling him what I needed and
he promptly sent me a detailed surgical report. Of all the surgeries
I have had this is the only time I have ever seen my surgical report,
even when several doctors were involved, so it does not seem standard
practice to give patients a copy of a surgical report, even in the
US. They can always be obtained upon request, and from my
experience, it the same in Brazil.
Kathy in MS

Well, In my first month I lost the most, and at this point I am at 78
pounds down.
I keep finding it very hard and difficult to stop weighing myself
every day... the most I have been able to stay away from the mechanical monster
is 3 days .... and then I unconsciously start doing it again.
I still feel like I pulled a muscle in my side ... Don't think its a
hernia cause I can't feel anything protruding or what.
I like the feeling of going from size 54 pants to 48 in such a very
short time...
On occaision I eat to much and feel a bit nauseous .. but food wise I
am not cheating I am maintaining 85 to 90% protien and filling in with stuff
like Apple Sauce and when Iam really good I make no fat/ no sugar jello
pudding.
the great difficulty is trying to maintain the vitamin/calcium
intake.. I average about 2000 of Calcium a day but sometimes fall below it and
over
it on the following day.
My wife is my water monitor and makes sure I am hydrated ... but I find
I have to be constantly reminded to drink....
All in all I am glad for the wieght loss... I still feel spells of
weakness and some slight internal pains or discomforts from time to time... but
I must say I already feel more energy than I did on any given day last
year... can only hope the energy levels increase.
I thanks the good Dr. Marchesini for doing such a great job in
turning my life around and setting me on a path toward health and mobility.
Konstantin

Have you ever seen Mel Brook's "Blazing Saddles"? It is hysterical. His other
movies "The Producers" and "Young Frankenstein" are good but "Blazing Saddles"
had my sides aching from all the laughing I was doing.
Carole
saipanmom <jkrdrmom@...
Anyone know of some really good funny movies I can bring?
I am going to bring my favorite from last year Pirates of the
Carribian (LOVED that movie, I could watch it over and over agian for
some reason).
Hmmmm....I am going to have to look around and bring something I
haven't seen or something I havent' seen in a long time.
RobinG
10/26/04

I am so excited to read your positive notes and see your terrific
weight loss. You are someone I always read because of your sensible
responses. My surgery date is Dec. 14 and I keep you in mind. You
have done so well. I hope I have similar results.
Best
Patrice in Texas

I'm going to second that, Patrice. I think Dave is one of the coolest people on
this site: he is always honest, positive and doesn't get sucked into drama.
Plus, he is cute!
--Brittany
austinmoon24 <plieb@...
I am so excited to read your positive notes and see your terrific
weight loss. You are someone I always read because of your sensible
responses. My surgery date is Dec. 14 and I keep you in mind. You
have done so well. I hope I have similar results.
Best
Patrice in Texas

"Brief" would certainly be the operative word. The "report" basically says
"Brittany had a BPD with DS for her morbid obesity. Her surgery was uneventful.
Feel free to contact me." I did remind my dr. that he could contact Dr. M., to
which he replied "I'm not calling Brazil!" Don't you just love Kaiser!
George Leppla <gleppla1@...

Deidre,
I also use the Slim fast low carb shakes. My pcp asked that I drink at least
one each day for a while to make sure I am getting enough protein. She didn't
suggest slimfast exactly, but I have found that it tastes the best for the price
and the amount of proteins, fats and carbs. I have found the the vanilla agrees
with me the most and then the chocolate royale.
I also watch the sunday paper...someone almost always has it on sale. This week
Osco (a drug store with lots of other food items) had it on sale for $3.99 a
four pack and I had a $1.00 off coupon to boot. I felt like I hit the lottery!!
I am two and a half months out and still find it hard to get my protein in
daily...sometimes even with the shakes. Still can't eat very much at a time.
Kathy B in KC

David (and any others interested),
Today I tried Slim Fast low carb chocolate shake in the can. It had
20 grams of protein and I thought it tasted very good. It has NO soy
in it but mostly made up of milk and milk protein concentrate. It was
really good especially in a pinch to run out the door with. Hope it
is helpful.
Deidre

Well....It is standard proceedure where I work to have those reports
whenever possible. I was just assuming that is something Dr M
would send home with me when I come home. I remember reading
something about him sending any xrays and reports back with me for my
pcp. Operative reports are important to tell exactly what was
preformed and how with any important finding made. I will be sure to
get those for ME when I leave Brazil. Maybe they are in Portugese
though? That would be a problem for an American doc. They would have
to be translated.
Let me know what Dr M tells you. That is kind of important
information to know.
Robin G
10/26/04

I just saw a spot on my local news that came from CBS news which was very
positive about gastric bypass surgery. He went on to say statistics show
that 83% lose their sleep apnea, 77% lose their diabetes and 62% lose they
hypertension. True, they were talking about the RNY but they interviewed a
woman who dropped from the high 200's to 199 in 7 months and isn't finished
losing and she said she did it to get rid of her co morbidities because she
was so worried about her health. The reporter acted like her being off
insulin was a miracle. I was so shocked about the positive report that even
if it was the RNY who cares!!! It was so nice to see something positive
about the medical aspects of WLS. W

Hi All
I saw my PCP today and he was really rude. I am 1.5 months post-op
and in pretty good shape. I showed him the post-op paperwork Dr. M.
provides and he was appalled. He said that it was "standard care"
for all surgeons to provide an operative report and to perform
pathological findings on all removed body parts. This coming from a
doctor who had not even heard of the DS. I thought it would
be "standard procedure" for doctors to stay current on medical
procedures/trends/advances! Anyway, did anyone else have this
problem? I emailed Dr. M. and I'm really hoping he produced both
after my surgery and can send me copies.
Is my doctor just a jerk or is this justified?
Thanks in advance for any responses :)
Brittany

Do you think the Hotel or Durval would know who this person is? Do
you remember how you found her?
Robin G

the Curitiba Film Festival! ; )
How fun! : )
-Kelly

Probably so, but I'm sure I'll welcome the company. And you can ask me anything
you like. Can't guarantee I'll have an answer, but feel free to ask away. By
the way, I'm bringing DVDs, too. Looks like between the 3 of us, we're going to
have a film festival.
Janice
10/20/04

Hello Robin,
Here is some good news for you and of course --
YMMV!!! But I had fairly severe and yes painfull gout
in right foot and occasionally in left foot PRIOR to
Dr. M's magic DS!! Since Dec. of 2003 I have had two
very very mild episodes and both were handled by
the NSAID Indocin...(taken with food & Dr.M's OK!).
As to that very very rare complication...there are good
doctors at the Med Schools in St. Louis who are aware
and can handle that "almost ...never happens /rare
complication" and Dr. M can always be reached by
phone in the event of an emergency.
As to "DH"-- you are a valuable contributing member
of your family...IF he doesn't acknowlege this as TRUE
...then perhaps you need to seek counseling after the
DS and learn there are alternatives to the situation.
We care about YOU Robin...the "yips" will pass and
YOU will be fine! The DS is going to help you on so
many levels...the next months are going to be full of
exciting challenges and achievements. We are all
cheering you on! Go Robin Go!
Hugs from a friend in Chicago, Gloria
Learning is a Life-Long process which keeps us young
in heart and mind!

..."don't be too worried if I seem a
bit nuts! "...
Looks like we'll get along just fine! ; )
-Kelly

Hi Robin,
There is a place called Visions right beside the hotel. They do hair and
nails and that type stuff. I don't know if they do massages or not though.
Ask Durval or Doc M. If I recall correctly Doc M arranged a massage for
someone in the hotel who was having trouble relaxing and resting.
Clear Skies,
Dave in Ohio
Biliopancreatic Diversion with Duodenal Switch by Dr. Marchesini in
Curitiba, Brazil
July 6, 2004
Highest Weight: 450lbs (BMI 72.6)
Surgery Weight: 377lbs (BMI 60.8)
Weight on October 6: 290lbs (BMI 46.8)
Total loss on October 6: -87lbs

I heard that getting a message is cheap in Curitiba. Is that through
the hotel? Or do you go somewhere for it? I would love to have
one. DH wants one two. I would be nice to be all relaxed before
surgery.
Also, how about other stuff like manicures?
I am looking to have the LAZY life for a few day!
Did anyone have to drink bowl prep stuff before surgery? I HATE the
taste of that stuff!
Robin G
10/26/04

Me too, me too! At least for your first week. We can all keep each other
company. I'm looking forward to seeing you guys when you arrive. Hopefully,
I'll be back at the hotel by then.
Janice
10/20/04
In a message dated 10/11/2004 11:42:09 PM Eastern Standard Time,
jkrdrmom@... writes:

Yep- I was always big on letting everyone else go first! ; )
So, I'll see how you turn out and then I'll make my final decision : )
Can't wait to meet you- is your hubby getting ready for the trip? : )
-Kelly

I will be just recovering when you have your day, so I will probably
be around. We will both get through this just fine. I am really
confident about that! I am also scared to death though. I hate pain
and feeling helpless and unable to do things myself. It will be even
worse to be so far from home. I am bringing a DVD player and movies
to keep me occupied.
Robin G
10/26/04 at 1:30 pm

Thanks Tracy, There are 3 of us from this area. Maybe we can all come to one of
your support groups. good luck with your weight loss. thanks again, let us know
when your group meets. Janie
Tracy Williams <casacraigtracy@...
Happy Birthday, Janie and welcome to the family. I was switched 3
weeks ago and I am also in the DFW, Texas area. Maybe you will feel
like making the drive to Dallas once in a while for our area support
group. You are in my prayers.
Tracy

Happy Birthday, Janie and welcome to the family. I was switched 3
weeks ago and I am also in the DFW, Texas area. Maybe you will feel
like making the drive to Dallas once in a while for our area support
group. You are in my prayers.
Tracy

but eventually it will become easy. Good luck.
I seem to be falling apart post-surgery. Everything makes me nervous
and I feel so needy about requiring reassurance. I hate being
pathetic. (LOL) Thanks!
tracy

Of course you're tired girl. Your body will be healing for another couple of
months. Try eating two small bites of solid food, waiting an hour, then try two
more. The popsicles sound wonderful. In the beginning it always takes us awhile
before we can eat even relatively normally. I'm 3 months from my revision
(stomach made smaller) and there are still many things I can't eat. But it gets
better all the time. I might even want to try chicken again soon. As soon as
chicken, white or dark meat, hit my stomach, it would come right up. When I
started eating the only things I could eat were vegetarian protein like the
Morningstar Farms chicken nuggets and shrimp. Now I can eat all healthy food
except chicken so I feel I've made tremendous progress. You will too. Don't
expect to be able to eat your 70 grams of protein a day right away. You won't be
able to, but eventually it will become easy. Good luck.
Carole
Tracy Williams <casacraigtracy@...
Hello, all!
I have been lurking and trying to keep up with everyone. Tomorrow
will be three weeks since my DS and I am still not feeling well and
have some questions. I went to my PCP's physician's assistant today
and she was little help. In fact, told me that normally my surgeon
should be doing this follow-up but since I chose to go out of the
country..... blah, blah, blah. My PCP and her nurse is very
supportive so the next appointment I have will be with her. I just
needed to go in today to see if I would be able to get another week
or so reprieve from work. I did get that. Now, for my questions......
(1) I get very hungry, but nothing (except sugar free fruit bar
popsicles)taste really good. I can eat no more than 3 small bites of
solid food before my stomach begins to sort of cramp.
(2) Whenever I eat, I get nauseated. Then I throw up... not much and
it is immediately after eating, mostly thick, clear stomach
secretions,I think. No gagging, wretching, etc.... just up it comes.
(3) My incision is healing extremely nicely (except where the seroma
is draining)but.. it feels like the nerves are sitting right on top
of the skin in some places. Also, I hurt inside along the incision
when I get tired. Sometimes, difficult to breathe. Normal?
(4) How long does the average (if there is an average... I know YMMV)
seroma continue to drain?
(5) I run a VERY low grade temp when I get tired. My lab work is just
on the border of being high for WBC and the Hematocrit is just
borderline low. Is this just my old body trying to heal itself?
(6) I am just laying around, except for my twice daily walk, and I am
always tired. Any suggestions?
Thanks to all tips & answers.
Tracy (back in TX)
242/216/??
20 days switched

Lisa -
I'm so glad to hear that you are doing so well. As for the F word....
Try simethecone. It works wonders. I am not so troubled with gas the
past few days, but it works fast and works wonders for me.
Also, Ozium is available at Target in the automotive section. Takes
care of the lingering cloud!
I am using a bladder control pad on my seroma. I just cut the pad in
half, add a piece of folded gauze at the area of the actual opening
and tape it in place. It works so much better than bandages because
it is soft against your skin and has the outer leakproof cover. Be
careful of thin maxi pads though. Some of them have a plastic feeling
layer that is next to your skin. Could be very irritating.
God bless!
Tracy

I tried the Arise and Shine colon cleanse and I thought I was going to die, so
much stuff was running out of me constantly. I am not going to cleanse again,
but we're all different. Things like Imodium and Kaopectate don't work anymore
either. My gut seems to have developed a mind of its own.
Carole
DK <inailem@...
colon cleansing...is this something we can do? or is it something we
shouldnt do....
http://www.drnatura.com/index.php#ORDER
DK

Hello, all!
I have been lurking and trying to keep up with everyone. Tomorrow
will be three weeks since my DS and I am still not feeling well and
have some questions. I went to my PCP's physician's assistant today
and she was little help. In fact, told me that normally my surgeon
should be doing this follow-up but since I chose to go out of the
country..... blah, blah, blah. My PCP and her nurse is very
supportive so the next appointment I have will be with her. I just
needed to go in today to see if I would be able to get another week
or so reprieve from work. I did get that. Now, for my questions......
(1) I get very hungry, but nothing (except sugar free fruit bar
popsicles)taste really good. I can eat no more than 3 small bites of
solid food before my stomach begins to sort of cramp.
(2) Whenever I eat, I get nauseated. Then I throw up... not much and
it is immediately after eating, mostly thick, clear stomach
secretions,I think. No gagging, wretching, etc.... just up it comes.
(3) My incision is healing extremely nicely (except where the seroma
is draining)but.. it feels like the nerves are sitting right on top
of the skin in some places. Also, I hurt inside along the incision
when I get tired. Sometimes, difficult to breathe. Normal?
(4) How long does the average (if there is an average... I know YMMV)
seroma continue to drain?
(5) I run a VERY low grade temp when I get tired. My lab work is just
on the border of being high for WBC and the Hematocrit is just
borderline low. Is this just my old body trying to heal itself?
(6) I am just laying around, except for my twice daily walk, and I am
always tired. Any suggestions?
Thanks to all tips & answers.
Tracy (back in TX)
242/216/??
20 days switched

Fortunately, you won't be alone. You will have the wonderful Dr. M and Durval.
And believe me, they are very special men. It's also possible that patients of
Dr. Cavalcanti (plastic surgeon) who are staying at the Parthenon will be there.
Your family in the states will support you by phone and e-mail and before you
know it, you will be switched and on the way home.
Carole
Kelly Lautenbach <klautenbach1@...
I arrive on the 25th of October! ; ) I should be feeling pretty good by the time
you get there- I hope!
I'm getting the yips over not having anyone come along with me- I'm not normally
the crying type but I was in tears over the weekend. I know this is what I
want/need to do- just wishing that I didn't have to go it alone! : (
-kelly

If you have a copy of your itinerary, you can use that to get your visa. A copy
from the issuing travel agency that is.
Carole
Janie Mott <dwbs_mom@...
Thanks Nina, I hope we can get together at least one more time before I leave. I
am waiting to get my tickets In the mail, so I can get my visa. I am leaving on
the 4th of November. Janie
Nina Wright <ninabwright@...
Nina
Janie Mott <dwbs_mom@...
Thanks Val you can never get to many prayers. I am in San Marcos. Today is my
49th birthday and I was hoping to have the surgery on my birthday. It is a
birthday present from me to me. I can't wait! Janie
Val McLean <vjmclean@...
Where in TX are you? I'm in the DFW area. You will love Dr. M. as I'm sure
you've already figured out. This surgery isn't a picnic, but it is the best
gift you will ever give yourself. You are less than a month away from a
whole new life. I wish you the best on your journey. I'll have you on my
prayer calendar for the 9th!
Val in TX
DS 09/30/03
286/150/135-140?

That's why I decided to post it. Many people know me now and see how happy
I am. But new people don't know how absolutely desperate and scared I was 2
months post op. And even though I was here almost all the time I was
convinced I was the only one who was going through this. We all think so.
For the record I went to a year ago again today and printed part of my
therapist's response which also is applicable to most of us. I am very
lucky to have found her. And I will never have a public journal because I
write for myself. But if people think there is benefit from my posting bits
and pieces periodically from my first year I am willing to do it. But only
if it doesn't sound like Wendy monopolizing the conversation again since I
tend to talk a lot. <g
I hear the panic rising and it's not good. So, here's what I think. You
showed remarkable strength when you pulled yourself together and got your
self to Brazil for your surgery. When you believe something will work you
are very strong, determined, and effective. However, you believed
consciously and unconsciously that the surgery was going to be a magic
bullet and, that has not been quite the case. Now that you are confronted
with having to do the work yourself, you are running scared. Your
preoccupation with what to eat, comparison of yourself with others who eat
everything, quest for the right nutritionist, etc., all fall into the
category of "let me find the magical bullet" again. There is no right
food(s) that will meet your nutritional needs, soothe your feelings, satisfy
your taste buds, require no preparation. That quest is a blind alley and
will divert you from what needs to be done. I am afraid that if you stay on
that path you will fail. I have told you a couple of times and I'll say it
again, the protein foods you are eating are fine and that is what you need
to do. Boring, yes, but if you take food on a routine base as it is
intended it is simply fuel.

In the hospital someone will telll you how to hook up with the free dial-up ISP
they use. When you get to the hotel, just tell them you want internet access in
your room and will need a broadband cable and they will come and set it up for
you, so no need for anything other than your computer.
Carole
Kelly Lautenbach <klautenbach1@...
I know it's there but do I need AOL or another ISP to connect?
I am thinking I'll "need" to be able to connect with y'all so you can help calm
my major yip attacks!
Anyone wanna come hold my hand while I go under? That's the only thing I am
really nervous about!
-kelly

Ohhhhh Darlene! I'm so sorry! I am SOOOOOOO sorry! I do know how
much this meant. I don't know the circumstances...but I do hope that
it all turns out okay and you get switched as soon as everything is
resolved. Hugs....
Lisa
10 days post op

I have kept it very simple today. Eggs (over easy and deviled),
cottage cheese w/ canned pairs, a couple of little hunks of cheese,
yogurt (no problem w/ lactose as of yet) and the gas has not even
begun. Maybe it won't. I hate to have to eat this bland forever,
but I know that this too shall pass. For now, it's much better on
ALL of us for me to just keep it simple. Thank you for all your
help. I thought I was doing the right thing by chewing to
smitherines....but apparently, there's more to it than that! I
appreciate you all!!!
I also learned yesterday the full meaning of seroma! I am healing
beautifully, no sore places or red places. The incision is looking
wonderful and last night I went to get ready for bed and I was
soaked! I couldn't change my dressing quick enough because it was
gushing so fast. I am glad that it did, because I had been saying
all day that I was looking swollen and protruding too much from that
area. Sure enough...nature did take its course and made an opening
for all the fluid to escape! I hope it's shortlived. I seem to be
right on schedule.
Lisa
10 days post op and SOOOO happy to be on the other side!!
Down 16 pounds

I know it's there but do I need AOL or another ISP to connect?
I am thinking I'll "need" to be able to connect with y'all so you can help calm
my major yip attacks!
Anyone wanna come hold my hand while I go under? That's the only thing I am
really nervous about!
-kelly

Kelly, You are doing the right thing. I can't wait. I hope we can support each
other. see you soon. Janie
Kelly Lautenbach <klautenbach1@...
; ) I should be feeling pretty good by the time you get there- I hope!
I'm getting the yips over not having anyone come along with me- I'm not normally
the crying type but I was in tears over the weekend. I know this is what I
want/need to do- just wishing that I didn't have to go it alone! : (
-kelly

I arrive on the 25th of October! ; ) I should be feeling pretty good by the time
you get there- I hope!
I'm getting the yips over not having anyone come along with me- I'm not normally
the crying type but I was in tears over the weekend. I know this is what I
want/need to do- just wishing that I didn't have to go it alone! : (
-kelly

You are right I am looking forward to being "fabulous, fat-free and fifty" lol
in only one short year. Janie
Val McLean <vjmclean@...
great present. Next year you will be
"fabulous and 50" as Darlene likes to put it. Isn't it nice to be able to
look forward to turning 50? HA! I'm a few months behind you (I'll be 49 next
July).
Val in TX
DS 09/30/03
286/150/135-140?

Thanks Kelly and Happy Birthday to you too. What day will you get to Curitiba? I
will arrive on the 5th, my husband is coming with me. Can't wait to see you
there. Janie
Kelly Lautenbach <klautenbach1@...
My birthday is on Wednesday (37)- I chose the exact same present! LOL! : )
Yeah for us!
-kelly

Thanks Nina, I hope we can get together at least one more time before I leave. I
am waiting to get my tickets In the mail, so I can get my visa. I am leaving on
the 4th of November. Janie
Nina Wright <ninabwright@...
Nina
Janie Mott <dwbs_mom@...
Thanks Val you can never get to many prayers. I am in San Marcos. Today is my
49th birthday and I was hoping to have the surgery on my birthday. It is a
birthday present from me to me. I can't wait! Janie
Val McLean <vjmclean@...
Where in TX are you? I'm in the DFW area. You will love Dr. M. as I'm sure
you've already figured out. This surgery isn't a picnic, but it is the best
gift you will ever give yourself. You are less than a month away from a
whole new life. I wish you the best on your journey. I'll have you on my
prayer calendar for the 9th!
Val in TX
DS 09/30/03
286/150/135-140?

Diane, I am sure I will have lots of questions. It will be reassuring having
someone there, that has been through it. I will look forwanrd to meeting you.
And wish you only the best with your surgery. Janie
zinnia55@... wrote: i'm really hoping to meet you there too, janie. i'm
now
scheduled to have my plastic work with dr. cavalcanti on
nov. 16th--so our paths will cross! i had my ds last
september, and i hope i can help do things and answer
questions of those who are there the same time as me.
diane

Happy Birthday, Janie!!
Nina
Janie Mott <dwbs_mom@...
Thanks Val you can never get to many prayers. I am in San Marcos. Today is my
49th birthday and I was hoping to have the surgery on my birthday. It is a
birthday present from me to me. I can't wait! Janie
Val McLean <vjmclean@...
Where in TX are you? I'm in the DFW area. You will love Dr. M. as I'm sure
you've already figured out. This surgery isn't a picnic, but it is the best
gift you will ever give yourself. You are less than a month away from a
whole new life. I wish you the best on your journey. I'll have you on my
prayer calendar for the 9th!
Val in TX
DS 09/30/03
286/150/135-140?

Yeah, Diane, I can't believe it myself. My original goal was 150 so I am
already there. Then I decided that I wanted to get into the "normal" range
on the bmi chart so if I make it to 140 I'll be there. If I don't lose
another pound, I'm a happy camper. I'm going to want some plastics some day,
but my hubby and I were both unemployed all summer and I'm still looking for
a job, so it will have to wait. The good news is that hubby's new job has
good insurance so it looks like I'm finally going to be able to get my
hernia fixed - HOORAY! I'm going to see what it would cost to do a tummy
tuck at the same time, but my stomach isn't too bad. I'm more worried about
my arms and thighs. I've been very fortunate that my tummy just didn't sag
as much as I would of expected. Dr. M. thought I'd make it to 170, so I have
way exceeded his expectations.
Val in TX
DS 09/30/03
286/150/135-140?

Happy Birthday to you! ; )
My birthday is on Wednesday (37)- I chose the exact same present! LOL! : )
Yeah for us!
-kelly

Well, Happy Birthday Jamie! What a great present. Next year you will be
"fabulous and 50" as Darlene likes to put it. Isn't it nice to be able to
look forward to turning 50? HA! I'm a few months behind you (I'll be 49 next
July).
Val in TX
DS 09/30/03
286/150/135-140?

val, do i understand from your stats that you're now
150, and only have another maybe 10 lbs. to go?
you've made it, girl!
diane

Thanks Val you can never get to many prayers. I am in San Marcos. Today is my
49th birthday and I was hoping to have the surgery on my birthday. It is a
birthday present from me to me. I can't wait! Janie
Val McLean <vjmclean@...
Where in TX are you? I'm in the DFW area. You will love Dr. M. as I'm sure
you've already figured out. This surgery isn't a picnic, but it is the best
gift you will ever give yourself. You are less than a month away from a
whole new life. I wish you the best on your journey. I'll have you on my
prayer calendar for the 9th!
Val in TX
DS 09/30/03
286/150/135-140?

Val, You are an inspiration thank you for your post. I am scheduled to have ds
with Dr M. on 11/09/04. It is nice to hear stories from people like yourself
that share their experience with us newbys. I am both excited and scared. But
can't wait to begin my weight loss journey. Janie in Tx.
Val McLean <vjmclean@...
I think it is so important for new people here to hear both the good and the
bad and your post was an excellent example of how helpless and panicked many
of us felt early on. I remember thinking at my first plateau that I was
going to be the first one that this surgery didn't work for and that I was
done losing weight at 3 weeks past surgery. Now, a little over one year
later, I've lost 136 pounds and my quality of life has improved a
thousand-fold. My body has its own unique pattern of weight-loss. The
further out I get, the longer the plateaus seem to last. The last one was
close to two months, but in the last two and a half weeks I've lost another
10 pounds. During those two months I also went up and down by 4 or 5 pounds
several times. The first time I "gained" several pounds I really flipped
out. I was not eating any differently and was getting in my vitamins and
water so just couldn't figure out what "I was doing wrong". I think we are
so conditioned to failure at our many weight-loss attempts that we really
believe we are somehow sabotaging the surgery. Hopefully newbies can benefit
from our past experiences and not beat themselves up when it happens to
them. I really appreciate all the support I've gotten here and hope that I'm
able to help others on their journey as well. I wouldn't got back to my old
life for all the money in the world!
Val in TX
DS 09/30/03
286/150/135-140?
Wendy wrote:
I think by now most people know I keep a diary. I just read a year ago
today before starting to write today's entry. It struck me that it might be
helpful to see what I wrote then.

Hi Janie,
Where in TX are you? I'm in the DFW area. You will love Dr. M. as I'm sure
you've already figured out. This surgery isn't a picnic, but it is the best
gift you will ever give yourself. You are less than a month away from a
whole new life. I wish you the best on your journey. I'll have you on my
prayer calendar for the 9th!
Val in TX
DS 09/30/03
286/150/135-140?

Hi Wendy,
I think it is so important for new people here to hear both the good and the
bad and your post was an excellent example of how helpless and panicked many
of us felt early on. I remember thinking at my first plateau that I was
going to be the first one that this surgery didn't work for and that I was
done losing weight at 3 weeks past surgery. Now, a little over one year
later, I've lost 136 pounds and my quality of life has improved a
thousand-fold. My body has its own unique pattern of weight-loss. The
further out I get, the longer the plateaus seem to last. The last one was
close to two months, but in the last two and a half weeks I've lost another
10 pounds. During those two months I also went up and down by 4 or 5 pounds
several times. The first time I "gained" several pounds I really flipped
out. I was not eating any differently and was getting in my vitamins and
water so just couldn't figure out what "I was doing wrong". I think we are
so conditioned to failure at our many weight-loss attempts that we really
believe we are somehow sabotaging the surgery. Hopefully newbies can benefit
from our past experiences and not beat themselves up when it happens to
them. I really appreciate all the support I've gotten here and hope that I'm
able to help others on their journey as well. I wouldn't got back to my old
life for all the money in the world!
Val in TX
DS 09/30/03
286/150/135-140?
Wendy wrote:
I think by now most people know I keep a diary. I just read a year ago
today before starting to write today's entry. It struck me that it might be
helpful to see what I wrote then.

i had hair loss after my gall bladder surgery in 1989, hair loss
that started about 2 1/2 years ago due to diabetes and hair loss
following my DS........
the DS was almost 9 months ago.
hair loss started at about 3 months or so post op and is ( i pray)
slowing down now.
most docs i have asked say the post op loss is a response to the
anesthetics.
not the specific surgery.
not everyone has it.
those that do.........when it starts and how long it lasts seems to
vary.
i am going to try to get ahold of some of that Avocor that Carole
mentioned.
others have metioned the supplements Zinc, and Bioten.......
increased protein.....and hair care products called Nioxin
blessings.
joanne

colon cleansing...is this something we can do? or is it something we
shouldnt do....
http://www.drnatura.com/index.php#ORDER
DK

Hair loss is not uncommon after you have surgery, any surgery. I have
lost hair 4 times after having surgery. It stinks, IMO! LOL
Becca

Hi, everyone! My name is Rachel and I am new to all of this. I am
researching all I can on DS and I have been reading messages here
for about a week now. I will be a "self-pay" but waiting for funds
to become available. I do have a question and of all the questions
I have this may sound silly but why is it that there is hair loss?
I do enjoy reading the messages here, and many of you guys seem so
very sweet and caring. I am hoping that my best friend will make
the "switch" with me as she is the one who turned me onto this.
~Rachel~

Lisa, I am glad to see you arrived home safely. It is so nice to be back
home, isn't it? I know you missed your family and you were glad to see
them. Be careful and don't over do it.
You can eat anything you want, but you will pay for it later. Your body
has changed since you had surgery. Foods that never caused you gas
before, will give you gas now. Foods that gave people gas before
surgery may have been beans, broccoli, cabbage, etc. Now, muffins,
donuts, potatoes and carbs will give you gas. Sweets and fats will give
you diarrhea.
It has only been 9 days since you had surgery. Can you eat anything you
want? Sure you can, but Dr. M gave you a diet, and his diet says you
should stick to liquids for two weeks, then you can eat soft foods
(eggs, cottage cheese) fish and chicken. You can eat soft foods like
potatoes and gravy, but it will give you gas. Making smart food choices
right now is critical if you want to avoid the nasty consequences of gas
and diarrhea. You will be able to eat all of that good stuff very soon,
just keep in mind you just had surgery and your body is healing. Don't
rush it. When you stick to his diet, you can avoid a lot of gas.
Since I had surgery, I have not had diarrhea since I came home. Not
once. I am very slow to lose weight, so I am avoiding bread, noodles,
rice, potatoes, bread, gravy, sweets. I eat eggs, salads, cheese, meat
and vegetables. None of these foods have given me gas or diarrhea. It
may not work for everyone, but it works for me.
When we were children, we did not say the word "fart" either, we said
flatus. We said BM's when we were toddlers, then we said bowel movements
when we were older. These were not considered dirty words at home.
You said you felt "super", I am so glad to hear that! You never know
how people will feel after surgery. We are all different, so it is hard
to tell. I figured, since you have a house full of children, you must
be a strong woman. LOL You must be feeling pretty good, since you took
the kidlets to Wal-Mart.
How is it going with the two babies? I know it is hard to not pick them
up, when they look at you with those sad, pleading eyes. It is so hard
to say "no" to them. :(
Best of luck with the gas and diarrhea. It will get better with time, I
promise.
Becca

george, the person who wrote that email is a coward, a
sneak, a spy and a lying scum. don't look for any moral
fiber there--they'll never come forward.
but the truth will come out.
and to the moderators of these three lists:
i would hope that a person who sneaks around in here
and then sends damaging, lying email to try and destroy
the patient-doctor relationship of another person will be
banned from these lists.
let them spew their hatred in dr. b's group. they're good
at it there, to dr' b's shame and mortification.
diane

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! I am having a pity party with you! I am
SOOOOOOOOo bummed- Looks like it's going to be me and Robin and we are both
Chickens! ; ) LOL! : ) You were supposed to go before me and make sure it was
all good- I'm sorry you have to delay- but there's usually a reason why beyond
what we can initially see. I hope you stick around and chat with us and hang
out- you'll get to go and I'll be here to cheer you on-
Take care girl- it'll all work out.
-kelly
(starting to feel lonely now that another person isn't going to be there when I
am.)

That is a great way to tell people.
I work with Nurses and doctors and so far have been getting good
feedback from them.
I will be having my surgery 2 weeks from TOMORROW!!!!! yikes it is
getting close. I leave in 11 days..
Robin G
10/26/04

"As hard as this is for me to do, I have to inform you that I am
cancelling my surgery on Oct.27.
An escalating family situation will not allow me to leave the country
at this time."
This is part of the email I just sent Dr.M. Right now the emotions
are so jumbled! I want this surgery sooooo bad but there is no way I
can go right now. Ironic....I passed all the tests, have cash and
passport in hand and with a "consul" here in Houston was preparing to
get the visas for my bestfriend and myself.
I was lookin forward to meetin Robin, Kelly and all the others that
are "switchin" at the end of the month. I know when I get my chance
there will be others and that is a comfort.
I would like to continue with the group..supportin, laughin and
learnin ....gonna take a few and have my own private pity party..
Darlene in Tx

Dear Diane:
I am sorry very much to have you and me be involved
with this problem. I practically never get into the web. I
have no time to do it unless someone call me to see it!
I do appreciate very much your decent, honourable and
positive letter!
I accept completely and without any reserve your
friendship and affection and I am sure you feel you
have mine.
I am feeling very sorry for any misunderstanding that
previously may have occured in between us and I look
forward for that visit to Spain and to Alcoy.
Now I want to ask you how are you doing.
How is your weight and QOL?
Sincerely

i just heard from dr. b tonight. apparently some busy
little person has written to him behind my back,
interfering in our priviliged relationship, trying to create a
smear campaign, spewing lies and misconceptions. just
a fine example of what happens among his pablum-
sucking yay-sayers.
i'm copying the note here, along with my response. just
so people know what they can expect among his
faithful. dina mcbride, get your house in order.
sickening. but i expected something like this, sad to say.
diane

I think by now most people know I keep a diary. I just read a year ago
today before starting to write today's entry. It struck me that it might be
helpful to see what I wrote then. When I wrote the following I was 5 days
past my 2 month anniversary. This is part of an email I sent to my
therapist. In the year since that was written I went on to lose 75 more
pounds, lost most of my co morbidities and became able to eat anything I
wanted when I wanted as long as I followed the few simple rules we all know
about. This is dedicated to new post ops and their first plateau......W
I've picked up the phone several times to call but then figured what would I
even say in a message? I don't want to leave a long rambling one and to
just say I am miserable just wouldn't do it. I spend all my time berating
myself. I am the only person in history who is not losing weight. I made
an appointment to see Fagan on Friday to see if she knows a nutritionist who
is familiar with WLS. Everyone says I am not eating enough. Dr. M. says I
should be eating my protein and not resorting to supplements to get it
because food will stay with me more. I really don't know how to do things.
I buy meals from Schwans or make scrambled eggs or cottage cheese or real
cheese or other stuff but other people eat tons of stuff. I don't even know
what to tell people to buy or how to do it. I really don't know how and am
stymied. The scale said 338.5 last Saturday which means I have gained and
lost the same 3-4 pounds for a month now. I weighed 326 when I came home
and dropped to 323 before I started gaining. I really am at a complete loss
and feel like a failure and a fool.
I only printed the first part of what I sent my therapist because the poor
lady must have had to read endless middle of the night ramblings which
boiled down to I am a failure and woe is me and on and on and on. Within 3
weeks I was writing a completely different tune and when I get there I'll
try to remember to print some of the new song. I am so glad to be where I
am now rather than where I was then. Life was so confusing until I knew my
body's pattern and what to expect. W

I will arrive in Brazil- yeah! ; )
I have finally figured out what to tell people to keep them from looking at me
like I am a total freak to go half way around the world for surgery. I just tell
them that I have crappy insurance that won't pay for ANY surgery of this type so
I am self paying and as a self pay person I get to choose the very best Doctor
to do my surgery and the very best Doctor is in Brazil! ; )
Since I have started explaining it that way everyone seems to "get it" . No more
looking at me like I am insane! ; )
now, back to my original thought in this whole email- Has anyone had an
international cell phone that they've taken to Brazil? If so, what company and
was it horrendously expensive? : ) Thanks for any and all info! ; )
-kelly

Lisa, I had to chuckle a bit while reading your post, I will be in
the same spot in about a month so I hope a postopper will post some
great advice on what to take and what NOT to eat. Take care and I
know it will get better.
Kimberly

Hey ya'll.....I'm FINALLY home...well, I've been home for a couple of
days now. I feel great! I'm re-learning how to eat. I'm SOOOO
happy to be back with my husband, my daughters and my babies! The
flight home absolutely BIT!!! Those 10 hour flights are KILLER!! I
also made the mistake of not taking any food with me on the plane.
Don't do that! Bring food to eat! I was about dehydrated and
starving by the time I got home! Literally! I am sleeping like a
rock here at home! I needed to come HOME to get some decent rest! I
had some beef stew today....SO good! Dr. M said we can pretty much
eat whatever we want as long as we chew it up as if it were put
through a blender. Now....I need help. I have always pooted....my
kids call it "poot" and fart has never been a word that I liked to be
used in the house with the kids. I just always thought it was an
ugly word for little girls to say and we just always said "poot".
Well...NOW, I am majorly FARTING constantly!!! I never understood
what ya'll were talking about when you referred to the horrible
smell. I thought...how could anything smell WORSE than a nasty
smelling gas!!??? NOW I KNOW!!! I'm going to make the house
permanently REAK (sp?) of this horrible smell! My stomach is always
rumbling trying to muster up another fart! 4 or 5 minutes
later....here it is! My kids are holding their noses 90% of the time
yelling EWE!!!!!!!!!! They did that to me in Walmart yesterday while
I was trying to be inconspicuous!! My own precious little girls were
yelling EWE!!!! in Walmart because they just can't help
themselves!!! What can I take? What can I do? I'm not eating a lot
of carbs...NONE actually! It always happens more after about 2 or
3pm when the morning foods start moving through there and then the
diarrhea in the evening until bed time. Any advice?? Does this gas
go on like this forever? I'm afraid to leave the house? I know the
diahrrea will let up or at least I will know when to expect it and
plan my outtings accordingly...but I can't hide from the farts!
Please help! I've taken Beano since yesterday and it's done NOTHING.
Tell me everything. What to buy. What to take. What to not eat?
What is the very best stuff for spraying if anything (I can't imagine
ANYTHING will work). I swear the farts are making my pants stink
long after the fart is gone! Don't laugh!!!
Other than that....I'm super!!! LOL
Lisa
9 days post op

thanks, sherry. i heard from dr. c this morning. i have a
new date for my plastic work--nov. 16th. now to co-
ordinate with dr. m for arwen.
dr. c tells me the 15th is a national holiday. does
anyone know which one it is?
diane